When many people see the rainbow flag, they think of unity, pride, and celebration. But inside that vibrant flag are specific colors, stripes, and stories that often go unnoticed. One of the most important—and frequently misunderstood—stripes belongs to the transgender community.

You will probably use the wrong pronoun for someone at some point. Don’t panic. Say: “Sorry, they —as I was saying…” Then move on. A long, tearful apology just makes it about your guilt. A quick correction shows their dignity.

Putting “she/her” or “he/him” in your email signature or bio normalizes the practice. Then, gently ask, “What pronouns do you use?” This takes the guesswork out of it and shows respect.