: He famously suggests that women should wait 90 days before having sex with a new partner to determine if he is "marriage material" or just "fishing". The Five Questions
The book is polarized, receiving high praise for its directness and heavy criticism for its traditionalist views.
Harvey argues that women often fail in relationships because they seek advice from other women instead of going to the source: men. He simplifies the male psyche into three basic drivers: who they are, what they do, and how much they make